Public sex is a fetish that involves having sex in public places where other people could see it. It is also known as agoraphilia.
This kink can be satisfied in many ways, including at sex parties or even at home by opening up the blinds. However, it should be done consensually.
1. It is a fetish
Fetishes are a type of sexual fixation on an object or body part that is not traditionally seen as sexy. They tend to be more common in men. People with fetishes often have to touch, smell, or rub the objects they’re attracted to in order to get aroused and achieve climax. They may also have fantasies about the objects or ask their partner to use them in sex. They can also have a compulsive urge to watch others engage in these activities.
The most common fetishes involve clothing and other objects related to the body. Skirts, stockings, shoes, underwear, and full-body costumes are some of the most popular objects fetishists like to touch. But fetishes can also be related to non-genital body parts, such as feet (also known as podophilia) or hair. Objects like diapers, watches, and medical objects (like stethoscopes) can also be turn-ons for some people.
Many people have fetishes that are considered safe. However, if a person or couple is obsessed with their fetish, it can cause problems in the relationship. If a person or couple cannot have sex without engaging in the fetish, it could become an addiction. It is possible to treat an addiction to a fetish with medication or talk therapy. However, it is best to seek help before the problem becomes out of control.
2. It is a fantasy
Having sex in public is a common sexual fantasy. However, it is not a good idea to play this fantasy out in reality. There are many risks associated with public sex, including being arrested or even sexually assaulted by members of the public. It can also be embarrassing for your partner and may damage their self-esteem.
According to studies, having sex in public is a common fetish among both men and women. It is thought that this fetish stems from an erotic fear of being watched or exposed. This fear is also often combined with the arousal of an obstacle that makes sex more exciting, such as a closed door or small space.
There are also some people who enjoy having sex in public because they have a kink for exhibitionism. This kink is called agoraphilia. Public sex can include having sex in the car, at work, a park, on a beach, in a public bathroom or even a closet.
Other fetishes associated with public sex are foot fetishes, cuckolding and age play. These fetishes are often seen in film and on television. Other fetishes can be found in music, such as melocinia (being turned on by music) and melodic lust. For example, certain songs can cause goosebumps, a faster heartbeat and arousal of the genitals. These types of fetishes can be explored in a safe, controlled way at orgies and group sex scenes.
3. It is a fear
For some people, the idea of having sex in public is very erotic. They like the thought that others might be watching and if they get caught it will be highly pleasurable. This kink is known as exhibitionism and it can be more or less strong for different people. Some people who have this fetish prefer not to be watched, while others find it very exciting.
Some people also enjoy sex in confined spaces, which is called claustrophilia. This kink is very different from exhibitionism because it involves sexual arousal from being confined to tight spaces. For example, some people like having sex in a car or in an office supply closet after hours.
Regardless of what type of kink you have, it is important to remember that public sex is never a good idea in real life. It can be very dangerous, especially if you get caught by the police or someone accidentally stumbles on your sexual antics. In addition, it can be very uncomfortable for those around you.
If you want to indulge in your kink, do it safely and sensibly with a trusted partner in a private, secluded location where everyone is consenting. Otherwise, it is always best to leave your fetishes in the fantasy realm. This way, you can enjoy the thrill without worrying about getting caught.
4. It is a compulsion
Public sex fetish is the sexual interest in performing sexual acts in public, often while being watched. It can include everything from sex in public restrooms to climaxing on the roof of a building. The fetish is so common that people have created tools to help them indulge their craving, including confinement chambers and cages.
It’s important to remember that even though indulging in a public sex fetish is exciting, it can also be dangerous. It can lead to police involvement, and being added to the sex offenders register. It can also be traumatic for anyone who is a witness to the event.
One of the main reasons people get turned on by public sex is because they think they might get caught. This is a huge part of the attraction, as it can make their hearts beat faster and cause them to feel more arouse.
Silva Neves, an Accredited Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, tells WH that having a fetish for exhibitionism can be fun, but it’s important to remember that the fear of getting caught isn’t enough on its own. He says it is essential to only engage in public sex if it is safe, sane and consensual, and not in front of strangers or family members. If you are going to explore your exhibitionism kink, he recommends doing it in an enclosed environment like a sex club or a swingers club.